Heart(s) Over Hype
An invitation to those who have felt that love’s old rules no longer fit. A welcome home to new maps of connection.
Dear Fellow Travelers,
Sooner or later, many of us have that 2 a.m. moment. The quiet reckoning when we realize that love, as we were taught it, does not fit the life we are actually living. We were told that happiness means finding The One, a single person meant to be lover, friend, and home. For some, that still sings true. For others, it has become a promise that feels a little like a prison.
Ethical Non Monogamy is the key your heart has been holding all along. You only had to remember where you left it. It offers love that is expansive, honest, and chosen. Built on three simple principles, the 3 C’s of Consent, Communication, and Compassion. It is not a rejection of monogamy but an invitation to design love intentionally.
That is why ENM.life exists. We are here to document, not to convert. We report with context, check our facts, and treat people’s lives with care. ENM.life is a newsroom, not a pulpit. We believe that stories of non-monogamy deserve the same rigor and empathy given to politics, science, or art.
This is emotional intelligence. And there is nothing artificial about it.
Curated. Contextual. Human.
What you will find here are news briefs, explainers, and reflections that trace how people make love and ethics coexist. It is both a signal boost and a small sanctuary. A place where those who live beyond traditional boundaries can see themselves represented with accuracy and grace.
Read generously. Share widely. Reach out. Tell us your story.
Welcome to ENM.life.
Welcome home.
At your service,
Harper J. Lincoln
Editor | ENM.life | editor@enm.life