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Harper J. Lincoln, Editor

Harper J. Lincoln, Editor
Polyamory and Polygamy are not the same. Not even close.

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Polyamory and Polygamy are not the same. Not even close.

CNN recently covered new polling data showing rising public support for non-monogamoy. However, the report repeatedly used “polyamory” and “polygamy” interchangeably. They are not the same thing.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 02 Dec 2025
Nearly 60 Percent of Gen Z Are Open to Polyamory, New Survey Finds

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Nearly 60 Percent of Gen Z Are Open to Polyamory, New Survey Finds

Study finds 59 percent of Gen Z are open to open or polyamorous relationships, 65 percent believe poly offer more enriching romantic and sexual experiences, 72 percent disclose other relationships to their partners, 85 percent say they would remain in a relationship even if sexual chemistry fades.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 02 Dec 2025
Reply to the Diarist: Rediscovering Pleasure After Divorce

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Reply to the Diarist: Rediscovering Pleasure After Divorce

She survived divorce, raised teenagers, and now finds herself wanting again. Two men, one carriage house, and a woman rediscovering her body and her future. A warm, human story of midlife desire returning on its own terms.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 28 Nov 2025
Reply to the Diarist: When Rain and Deaire Combine

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Reply to the Diarist: When Rain and Deaire Combine

A week of rain, sex, and rare self-awareness. A woman in an open relationship finds desire without losing her center, and shows how honesty can make even the wildest choices steadier.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 21 Nov 2025
Reply to the Diarist: From Sugar Baby to Suburban Ghost

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Reply to the Diarist: From Sugar Baby to Suburban Ghost

She isn’t choosing between lovers, she’s trying to survive a life she no longer recognizes. This week’s diarist moves from sugar baby glamour to suburban invisibility, using an affair to feel alive while her marriage quietly collapses.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 18 Nov 2025
Berlin Pastor Blesses Polyamorous Marriage of Four Men

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Berlin Pastor Blesses Polyamorous Marriage of Four Men

In Berlin, youth pastor Lena Müller offered a blessing she described as "marriage in the eyes of God" to four gay men in a committed polyamorous relationship.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 11 Nov 2025
Kofi Siriboe Says Monogamy Can Feel Like 'Role Playing,' Opens Up About His ENM Practice

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Kofi Siriboe Says Monogamy Can Feel Like 'Role Playing,' Opens Up About His ENM Practice

Kofi Siriboe says monogamy can feel “performative,” opening up about why he practices ethical non-monogamy. His reflections on relationships, fame, and personal truth shed light on the growing conversation around ENM in mainstream culture.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 10 Nov 2025
Reply to the Diarist: When "Open" Means Fantasy, Sex, and Life

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Reply to the Diarist: When "Open" Means Fantasy, Sex, and Life

Two lovers, one secret, and a week of desire disguised as freedom. What she calls choice might really be the fear of telling the truth.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 09 Nov 2025
Reply to the Diarist: Two Men, One Woman, One Decision

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Reply to the Diarist: Two Men, One Woman, One Decision

Two lovers, one secret, and a week of desire disguised as freedom. What she calls choice might really be the fear of telling the truth.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 31 Oct 2025
The Quiet, Radical Normalcy of Polyamory

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The Quiet, Radical Normalcy of Polyamory

Abby Moss lives in a triad that works: three adults, two cats, and one steady rhythm of care. Her story is a reminder that polyamory isn’t rebellion. It’s routine.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 31 Oct 2025
She’s Monogamous. I’m Polyamorous. Somehow, We Still Chose Each Other.

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She’s Monogamous. I’m Polyamorous. Somehow, We Still Chose Each Other.

They didn’t choose between monogamy or polyamory. They chose each other. A story about rethinking love without losing yourself.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 31 Oct 2025
Three Partners, Two Kids, One Family

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Three Partners, Two Kids, One Family

Writer Jennifer C. Martin defies stereotypes. She’s a mom, a Southerner, baker, foodie, and lives in a full household with two nesting partners (her husband and her boyfriend) and two kids.

By Harper J. Lincoln, Editor 30 Oct 2025
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